Divorce is pretty common these days, with about half of all marriages ending legally. Even so, it still raises a lot of questions. Here are some of the most frequently asked questions about divorce, along with their answers.
When Did Divorces Start?
Divorce laws have been around since about 2000 BC. Ancient Mesopotamia even inscribed these laws on clay tablets. However, back then, divorces were quite rare and came with some stigma, particularly for women, so not many divorces actually happened.
Why Do Most People Get Divorced?
A study from Denver University found that the main reasons people divorce are usually infidelity and a lack of commitment. Having an affair is often seen as a major betrayal, and even if the affair ends, rebuilding trust can be tough. Other common reasons for divorce include frequent arguments, getting married too young, and financial problems.
How Much Does a Divorce Cost?
This is tricky to answer since it varies for everyone. The cost can depend on the lawyer or firm you choose and the specific services you need. Some divorces are more complex, like when there are assets to divide, property sales, or prenuptial agreements involved. Also, divorces involving children are usually more expensive than those without kids.
How Do We Explain Our Divorce to Our Kids?
Even if you’re sure that divorce is right for your family, telling your children can be nerve-wracking. This conversation will be tough, but depending on their age, your kids might have already sensed tension at home. It might help if you and your ex decide together what to say. Often, it’s best to talk to your children as a team. Just be ready for them to possibly get upset.
Which Famous Couples Have Divorced Over Time?
Many well-known marriages have ended in divorce. For example, King Henry VIII had six wives, and his marriages to Katherine of Aragon and Anne of Cleves ended in divorce. In more recent times, members of the Royal Family, like King Charles III and Princess Diana, have divorced. Hollywood has also seen its share of divorces, such as between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, and Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman.
In Western society, divorce is now more accepted. It’s time we discuss it more openly to demystify the process!
